My Sweet Val
#1
Posted 04 May 2013 - 12:55 PM
Last July I took on a new job working 12+ hours a day. Thank God for my mom who helped care for my dogs while I was determined to make my new career work. Throughout his last months, Valentino received so much love and I didn't have to worry about him being alone - ever.
For the last several weeks, his diet consisted of rice, peas, carrots, mashed potatoes, ground turkey, canned dog food, peanut butter sandwiches, yogurt, fig newtons, cheez its, hot dogs, McDonald cheeseburgers and fries. I'd say he ate pretty well!
This morning he enjoyed yogurt and half a can of dog food for breakfast. After a nice meal, I massaged him and talked to him. He enjoyed the warmth of the sun one last time on the driveway and he hopped right into my Jeep when it was time to go.
I can't remember exactly when it was that he stopped giving kisses or the last time he spoke to me. Today he showed me how happy he was for the full and rich life I had given him by the vigorous wagging of his tail. He was able to visit with the entire staff at Southpointe Veterinary, which thrilled him, as all the staff are ladies and we all know how much of a ladies man Valentino was.
When it was time, I held him in my arms and told him what a special boy he was, not only to me, but to everyone he had the opportunity of coming in contact with. For those of you who don't know, Valentino was a cruelty case. But this never did stop him from wanting to serve mankind. For 5 years he served mankind as the best therapy dog ever! I am not just saying this because he was my dog. He truly was the best therapy dog ever. I wish I could have taken a video of how he use to work the room and go around to all the patients unfortunate to have mental illness. Many of these patients had not spoken or smiled in who knows how long, but Valentino had a special way of bringing it out in them.
Cocoa was there when we said our good byes. If I didn't bring her, I knew exactly what would have happened when I came home. She would have bolted out of the side door and went straight to behind the garage to find her buddy. He was such a good boy. He always waited to come home from the vet so he could take a poop. Cocoabutt would do just the opposite and crap in the lobby!
So many memories, so many pictures, so many special moments............I miss my boy so much but I am confident that I made the right decision today. I never wanted to see my boy get to the point where he didn't enjoy his favorite things - love, massages, food, the warmth of the sun and sloppy drinks of water.
I love you Valentino........
-Arda Barber
#2
Posted 04 May 2013 - 02:27 PM
Heartbreaking.... I know it took a lot of courage but you did the right thing for him. A Ladies Man should never suffer.
RIP Sweet Val.
#3
Posted 04 May 2013 - 03:06 PM
It matters to the one you save.
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#4
Posted 04 May 2013 - 03:13 PM
-Arda Barber
#5
Posted 04 May 2013 - 03:17 PM
The embedded collars in his neck when we got him and he goes back and extends the gentle paw to the human race. One heck of a dog. He knew and lived the word "Gentle".
#6
Posted 04 May 2013 - 03:36 PM
-Arda Barber
#7
Posted 04 May 2013 - 03:44 PM
My heart breaks for you. Val was such a special, special guy. You gave him a wonderful life . . . full of love. He gave back so much, in so many ways, and brought joy to all who knew him. I'm so sorry. Words cannot begin ease the pain you're feeling right now. He's at the Bridge, running free. Run, sweet Val, run . . .
Linda
The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated ... I hold that, the more helpless a creature, the more entitled it is to protection by man from the cruelty of man.
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Never To Be Forgotten
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Shadow a/k/a Little Snoopy
SCD's Betty Boo
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Bart (1993-1998)
Gunnar (1986-1992)
Sigmund (1975-1985)
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#8
Posted 04 May 2013 - 05:12 PM
#9
Posted 04 May 2013 - 05:57 PM
Cheryl, I am shaking, the feelings I have, I cannot put
into words, I am sorry but that just doesn't do it.
Saying "Goodbye" to our faithful family member and
friend is one of the deepest hurts we can and will
ever go thru in our life time.
You were each others world. What a boy he was, because
of your LOVE is what made Val.
YOU WILL "CARRY HIS HEART IN YOUR HEART" FOREVER
Cheryl, I am so sorry
"Until one has LOVED AN ANIMAL, part of
their SOUL REMAINS UNAWAKENED"
"
Yesterday is "HISTORY", Today is a "GIFT" and Tomorrow is a "MYSTERY"
"Always always try to be the" BEST YOU CAN BE"
Do not walk in front of me - I may not follow.
Do not walk behind me - I may not lead.
But walk beside me - and be my friend.
May you always have Love to Share
Health to Spare
and Friends who Care
Forever locked in my Heart
"I CARRY YOUR HEARTS IN MY HEART"........FOREVER
My "WHITE ANGEL".....Sweet sweet Schaudeh
4/17/1999...............5/14/2013
My "Bounty Hunter"
11/6/2000.......8/3/2009
My "Miks Von Rom Mateese"
7/6/1990..........4/4/1999
"I LOVED you yesterday, I LOVE you today, and I will LOVE you tomorrow'"
for you have never really left me
#10
Posted 04 May 2013 - 06:05 PM
SCD's Wild Child Gamble CGC
#11
Posted 04 May 2013 - 06:13 PM
I understand how badly your heart is breaking right now, and how empty your house must feel. It's so very sad, but you did the only thing you could. You set his beautiful spirit free......
Currently part of my treasured family and helping to make life fun and busy:
Hunter, the chocolate Labradeagle (or Beaglador)
Terra, the tall, gorgeous red Doberwoman
Waiting at the Bridge and forever in my heart...... Igor, Max, Savanna, Logan, and Tasha
#12
Posted 04 May 2013 - 07:22 PM
One night I dreamed a dream.
As I was walking along the beach with my Lord.
Across the dark sky flashed scenes from my life.
For each scene, I noticed two sets of footprints in the sand,
One belonging to me and one to my Lord.
After the last scene of my life flashed before me,
I looked back at the footprints in the sand.
I noticed that at many times along the path of my life,
especially at the very lowest and saddest times,
there was only one set of footprints.
This really troubled me, so I asked the Lord about it.
"Lord, you said once I decided to follow you,
You'd walk with me all the way.
But I noticed that during the saddest and most troublesome times of my life,
there was only one set of footprints.
I don't understand why, when I needed You the most, You would leave me."
He whispered, "My precious child, I love you and will never leave you
Never, ever, during your trials and testings.
When you saw only one set of footprints,
It was then that I carried you."
"Until one has LOVED AN ANIMAL, part of
their SOUL REMAINS UNAWAKENED"
"
Yesterday is "HISTORY", Today is a "GIFT" and Tomorrow is a "MYSTERY"
"Always always try to be the" BEST YOU CAN BE"
Do not walk in front of me - I may not follow.
Do not walk behind me - I may not lead.
But walk beside me - and be my friend.
May you always have Love to Share
Health to Spare
and Friends who Care
Forever locked in my Heart
"I CARRY YOUR HEARTS IN MY HEART"........FOREVER
My "WHITE ANGEL".....Sweet sweet Schaudeh
4/17/1999...............5/14/2013
My "Bounty Hunter"
11/6/2000.......8/3/2009
My "Miks Von Rom Mateese"
7/6/1990..........4/4/1999
"I LOVED you yesterday, I LOVE you today, and I will LOVE you tomorrow'"
for you have never really left me
#13
Posted 04 May 2013 - 08:24 PM
I cried all afternoon about Val . Not sure why, but I know I feel really bad for you and the rest of his loving family. For him, he had a best life a dog could ever wish for. You gave him everything, especially the chance to show the world that dobermans aren't all bad. He never held a grudge and gave so much back to the society that treated him so cruel. I'm glad you were the one to love him. Through his job, he blessed so many. He'll now bless you with many happy memories forever, until you meet again.
-M. Acklam
#14
Posted 05 May 2013 - 08:24 AM
-Arda Barber
#15
Posted 05 May 2013 - 08:47 AM
Dreams become reality one choice at a time.
S.C.D.'s Rhue ( Little Red Rhuebarb) 2008 or 2009 to March 2021
Forever your paw print in our heart's
S.C.D.'s Darling Darla Blue(LaLa for short)
Our Velcro Love Bug ( approx D.O.B Jan,2004 to June,2011)
& one of the many Queens prior
Autumn ( Black Lab)
Sept 1996 to Feb 2010
#16
Posted 05 May 2013 - 08:53 AM
Val always had the best places to sleep......
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-Arda Barber
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Posted 05 May 2013 - 09:10 AM
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Posted 05 May 2013 - 09:15 AM
-Arda Barber
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#20
Posted 05 May 2013 - 09:37 AM
My heart goes out to you. I'm crying my eyes out as I read your story, and see the great pictures.
You gave Val the best of the best in his life, he loved you so much and eveyone he meet. A true
friend of everyone.
I remember at the reunion how he would sit in your car and make sure everyone knew that no one else would get in your car without you
there.We all laughed how he would bark at you as we walked pass your car.
That was the best thing you could of done for Cocoa, to let her be there. I was told you should let your other dogs see and smell their
furfriends before they go to the Bridge. That way they know what happened and don't greave as bad, and wonder where they are.
I am truly sorry for your loss, Just know you did the right thng to not let Val suffer and to go in peace.You even gave him his day of sunshine,
and we sure did have a beautiful sunny day just for Val.
Run Free Sweet Val.
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